I am Winning the Divorce, but I Feel Bad?

I wouldn't feel bad. I would never get married without a prenup, and about the only way to void a prenup is to be out sleeping around with other people. Thats just stupid, if you are going to do that then just get divorced and move on in the first place. A prenup is smart, people should protect their investments and people change over time so you can't predict the future, but sleeping around with others when you are married is just stupid.