Is seeking wisdom from the well-lived senior citizens about grief and breaking-up a violation in itself?

The way I see it is that someone who couldn't understand your question obviously reported you. That's the way allot of the "clientele" on here works. When they see that you know more than them, which you obviously do, they report you. I've blocked about 7 or 8 of them that I suspect, you need to do the same.